One of the things about writing is knowing the creative limitations. Everything must be believable in the world you are writing about. Certain laws have to be obeyed. In the context of writing historicals, I do believe you have to obey historical laws as well.
After I got my idea for Sold and Seduced, I started to think about it. And suddenly realised that I had a problem --- basically Roman marriage law. Th Romans recognised four types of marriage. In the time period that I write about, in the vast majority of marriages, a woman's hand was not given in marriage. It was sans mano. She remained under her father's or guardian's control. This is why Roman women do not bear the same family name as their husband's. In the very early Republic and then later in the Christian era, Roman women did come under the control of their husbands and were married cum mano, but during this time, it was felt that women would be batter served if the legal guardianship stayed with her birth family. The intention was to make marriage stronger, but actually, it only increased divorce and made families less stable.
Personally I think it interesting that the early Christians went for the cum mano. I suspect Jewish tradition may have played a part, BUT as Roman custom and law prevailed at that point, and there are certain similarities in the wedding ceremony, I find it interesting.
Anyway, I had then had to come up with a reason why after Aro and Lydia were married, they would stay married -- particularly as Lydia's father was not keen on the marriage. In other words, I had to find a reason WHY Aro would insist on a marriage cum mano or with hand.
Once I had accepted the limitation, I was able to work with it, and the rest of the story flowed.
Some writers like to think about total freedom, but actually it is the structure and the demands of the world you create along with the main arc of the story that force you to exercise your creativity.
3 comments:
I agree. The structure and demands do make for more creativity.
I'll even go further and give you a quote from Julie Andrews:
"Some people regard discipline as a chore. For me, it is a kind of order that sets me free to fly."
I agree with this 100%.
That's a fascinating piece of history Michelle - I learned something new today! Tghanks for posting that
Kate
Thanks for both your comments, Donna and Kate.
I had never really understood the whole I give your hand in marraige bit until I started learning about Roman marriages. I found it really interesting as it did change over time.
The interesting thing that changed was the notions of child care. Do you indulge or don't you? What makes for a loving parent? Until I started doing the research, I had not realized that the Roman grappled with the same sorts of problems. In many ways, it made them seem more human to me.
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